Should You Opt for a First Look?

Should You Opt for a First Look?

February 03, 2017

Published 3 February 2017 · Last updated 19 October 2026
By Chanelle Segerius-Bruce & Craig Bruce

There are certain times in a man’s life that he’ll remember forever.  Moments that are etched into his memory and remain clear and focused.  You remember the sights, the sounds, the smells and even the taste of the best of these moments.  All your senses seem to become heightened.  Vision becomes clearer and your heart rate accelerates.  Sounds are heightened as you filter out the clutter.  Seeing your soon to be wife for the first time is one of these moments.

I’m often asked by a groom when the best time is to turn around and look at his bride.  The best time is from the moment she makes her appearance.  Drink it all in as she walks towards you.  Savour the moment you make eye contact and realise that this is the beginning of your life together.  Appreciate the commitment that you both will be making to each other.  Fall in love with the woman walking towards you all over again.

Some people want to savour the moment even more and opt for a first look.  Without anybody around it gives you an intimate moment to create your own life lasting memory.  An opportunity to have some alone time together before the ceremony to reassure each other that you’re both just as excited and will be there to support each other through the entire process.  To look at each other with every part of your being and enjoy the sensory overload.  Take it in, enjoy it and forever remember it.

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Craig Bruce and Chanelle Segerius-Bruce

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Chanelle Segerius-Bruce and Craig Bruce are co-founders of Segerius-Bruce Photography. Together they have photographed weddings since 2008, from the UK to destination weddings overseas, and their work has been published 74 times in wedding and photography magazines. They now live in Jeffreys Bay, South Africa, where Craig photographs families and weddings and Chanelle photographs personal branding shoots.

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